Finding a family for my Child

As the mother of your baby, it is your right to choose the perfect family for him. You may not be able to give your child what he deserves, but your decisions will open greater doors for him. We understand that you want the best for your baby despite your difficult situation. Adoption Services Worldwide will help soothe the pains that parting with your child brings by ensuring you that all his needs will be met by a family who closely resembles your definition of perfect.

We have pre-approved families who are willing to provide your child with his emotional and material needs as he grows. You will be shown several family profiles you can choose from. These are like scrapbook entries complete with pictures and all the necessary information about the family. Take your time as you browse through the family profiles. Keep in mind that your decision will greatly affect the future of your child.

Should you decide with an open or semi-open adoption, you will have the privilege of meeting the prospective families. You can arrange the meeting in a very casual environment such as a restaurant. The father of your baby may be invited as well should he wish to meet with the prospective family. If this not be the case, then bring along a parent, or a close friend.

The purpose of this meeting is for you to know the people who will care for your child better. Be open and ask, as well as answer questions. Matters such as why you are putting your child for adoption may come up. The family may also consider giving the child the name you have chosen. Maximize the opportunity by finding out whether the family truly possess the qualities you look for.

Here is a list of some of the questions you may want to ask the family:

• How long have you been together?
• What are the strengths of your relationship?
• Do you have any other children by birth or adoption?
• What are your reasons for choosing to adopt?
• Who will care for my child most of the time?
• What type of community do you live in?
• What are your hobbies and interests?
• Do you keep any pets?
• Do you have any religious affiliations?
• What is your educational level?
• What do you do for a living?
• Do the two of you work?
• What are your beliefs about discipline?
• What will make you the best parents for my child?
• Are you comfortable with us keeping in touch after the adoption is finalized?

Avoid making the meeting too formal. Be comfortable and feel at ease. Try not to make the other party feel conscious. This is a great opportunity for you to get to know the people your child will grow up with. Take your time and decide well. This is one important decision you have to make for your child. You will have to choose only once, but its consequences are forever.